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by chongli
2932 days ago
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I am not the GP but I will give it a try. Unequivocally bad: Death of a loved one. Unequivocally good: Birth of a child. Most people tend to experience these things more than once in a normal life. They represent a reality more real and more final than even psychedelics could manage: life and death. Impermanence. |
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Imagine how it would be if we didn't die. So is death good or bad?
I have a family friend whose first wife died of cancer. After mourning for years, he found another woman and married her. Unlike his first wife, she was insistent on having a baby. When their baby was born, he told us that, having held his child in his arms, he understood now that it would have been a huge mistake not to have had a child as he originally planned with his first wife. So was the death of his loved one good or bad?
> Unequivocally good: Birth of a child.
My sister was born and it must have been a very happy event. When she died it was very hard for my parents. Was her birth good or bad?
This is what the story is getting at. It doesn't make sense to assign good or bad to things. We don't have enough information yet. And we never do. It perpetually remains to be seen.
It's not apathy or learned powerlessness to accept the fact of reality that you just don't know enough to say whether something is good or bad. It's wisdom.