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It just needs to be made clear to people that no matter how much else may have changed, 35 is not the new 25 when it comes to having kids.

The only message I got when I was in my early 20s was “you have plenty of time! Make sure you’re established first!” Now it’s very unlikely that I’ll have as many children as I would like, and if I do they’ll have to come in much more rapid succession than I would prefer.