[rashomon]

Right in that bucket and don't think I'll ever afford being able to rear a child from a financial position of "comfort". Savings to the hilt but it's a cash flow problem.

I also don't want to leave my wife and I without a child but all I envision are bars of my own making.

[jacquesm]

There's a really nice scene in the movie Idiocracy about that sort of phenomenon.