[ordu]

I cannot help you with books, but at my understanding you need to think not on culture itself, but on why do you think that it is important to you to pass your culture to your children? Is this heredity is your terminal value, or there is some reasons behind heredity? If former, than you need not to think twice, just educate your children how your parents had educated you. In the latter case you need to think about reasons.

Dogma is hard to break, but those who what to break dogma would break it. It is not a problem. I believe that religious people stop to be religious when their success becomes dependant on ability to think free. When they have no need to think free, they remains religious. Contrary, when people need to live in more consistent and more determined world, they might become religious. It is their choice dictated by environment they live within and their personal traits (for example, some people more resistant to anxiety and they may benefit less from being religious).

So if your children will need a freedom of thought, they will get it, if they will need religion they will become religious, regardless of your efforts. Or, more probably, they will not find theirselves in an extreme situation where it is really matters to be religious or not to be, and it means that it all up to you: raise them in the religion or outside of it.