I think the first point is only true for symmetric matrices (which includes those that show up in multivariable calc). In general, the eigenvectors need not be orthogonal.
Yep, you could well be right. The image of an ellipse under a linear transform is definitely an ellipse, but I'm not sure about the eigenvectors in the general case.
The symmetric case is by far the most relevant for probability theory though.
The symmetric case is by far the most relevant for probability theory though.