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by meowface 2965 days ago
I'm sure there are many people who meet organically with people from developing countries and start a genuine romantic relationship, but that doesn't appear to be what the parent poster was talking about.
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It's also not exactly what I was referring to.

1. What's wrong with a relationship that isn't "organic". What does that even mean exactly? 2. Same goes for "genuine".

I can see how there's degrees of 'health' to various approach, as well as ethical concerns, but I strongly disagree that the approach should by default or ideally be (primarily) 'organic' and 'romantic'.