Great. Now if you can explain to me where you got the idea that a join (inner or otherwise) is the only possible way to query two tables then we might get somewhere. Because you can also just do two queries. And no, that does not necessarily mean "two roundtrips to the DBMS" (which I know perfectly well is undesirable). There are techniques for avoiding that. Perhaps not in SQL, but that's a reason you should be pressing the vendors to improve SQL. Not for you to agree to the status quo of sticking with the vendors' old bypasses-and-hacks cheating bag.
Haha OK then use a UNION... oh wait we're gonna have NULLs with that too. One suspects you'll also have some vague objection to this point, but if the only way to address that is to wait on somebody to invent an "improved" SQL, one won't worry about it too much.
Where have I said any such thing ?