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by hkmurakami 2966 days ago
It's not just a channels/strategies for introverts. It has to be a channel that works for you personally.

Personally, I'm not a person who can be successful doing "cold networking" or "never have lunch alone" strategies. Some people consider cycling to be the new great way to network, and many introverts seem to use it well. Probably not going to work for me either.

Lean on your strengths, interests, and natural inclinations rather than force yourself to be someone who you are not and play in a field unfit for you.

Also, don't frame it as a "networking" effort, as that mindset imo will make you transactional, and it will show. Instead focus on building relationships that truly resonate with you. Don't meet a person with the desire to get something from them. Be genuinely interested in who they are, not what they do or what they have.

Lean towards quality rather than quantity of relationships if you don't enjoy meeting and keeping in touch with a hundred people.

>How many potential start ups have never been funded because the founder(s) didn't have the networking skills that are natural to extroverts?

Probably a lot. But the number of would-have-been-extremely-successful startups that didn't get funded because of a lack of networking skills when they started? Probably very very few, because if they didn't have the determination to figure out a skill they sucked at but was essential to the success of their venture, then at some point in the future they would have hit another difficult wall and have given up.