[andy_adams]

> Having a kid doesn't make you better at parenting

Holy cow, this is so untrue. Having a kid is pretty much the _only_ way to get better at parenting, saving maybe babysitting someone else's kids for long periods of time.

[airstrike]

Making a genuine effort to be a good parent is what makes a good parent. You don't magically become enlightened after giving birth.

[salvar]

> You don't magically become enlightened after giving birth.

Given that no one even came close to saying this, this comment seems very disingenuous.