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Some people value what good family and friends provide, having experienced it firsthand. Some have experienced good family and friends but don't value it, and some haven't experienced it.

Typically, if one of your primary needs is to feel loved, valued, and cared for, family and friends solves that the best way. Assets do not.

However, not everyone's primary need is to feel loved, although there is a certain level of that needed by everyone. Your primary need may be for things to stable, organized, orderly, or for you to accomplish goals you set out for, or to be consistent with your value system whatever you set up.