I'm kind of in the same boat.
Vancouver making 135k approximately (based on 40hr week, since wage is hourly)
Have an offer at a FAANG company that when converted to CAD is the same as what my wife and I make combined.
Unfortunately we'd still lose a big chunk of our household income till she can find work there. Fortunately she's American but still in a relatively niche field so might take some time.
Canadians getting a raw deal by comparison. Cost of living in Toronto is not half of that of the Bay Area. Most like 2/3rds.