[alexashka]

I don't know that these are learned the same way learning how http works is learned, because it requires an emotional shift and a shift in how you already view the world.

These changes are transformative, not additive - unlearning can be a lot harder than learning.

Excellent list otherwise.

Most of these things will become 'natural' if you spend time around people who've already internalized these lessons, so for the younger folks, the greatest help would be getting to spend time with people who already have these qualities - it'll slowly mold you into having them as well.