[darpa_escapee]

> There is NO getting through to some of these people until they need the help they refuse to pay for. I have seen one couple change their minds once their insurance refused to cover something for their kid. Immediately they were "raising awareness" for this type of stuff... but whatever at least they eventually came to.

There's a risk associated to the type of thinking that takes root before a breakthrough experience like this: it's the idea that if something bad like were to happen to them, it's because they are exception to the rule, where the rule is plugging your ears and repeating personal responsibility over and over again.

That's to say such a situation gets internalized as, "It's unfair that my treatment isn't covered because I pay for insurance coverage, so of course I expect to be covered when I'm sick. If you don't pay for insurance, you shouldn't expect anything."

Which is a close relative to, "It's okay that I'm benefiting from public assistance, because I'm actually suffering and I'm not cheating the system like everyone else."