[nostrademons]

Who would you rather be: the person who attributes their success to their actions, or the person who complains about not being successful?

You don't necessarily have control over whether you're successful, but you have a lot of control over how you see yourself and your personal narrative.

[goalieca]

Why would i want to be anyone but myself? But to answer your point, arrogance and ignorance are not something to covet and neither is whining.