Still a fan of the dead-tree variety. It's not so much paper vs e-ink, more that every new book is a new physical object with its own size, shape, weight and (sometimes) smell.
I absolutely love everything book-related, and have for a long, long time. But as you say, each book is an item with its own size, shape and weight. Having to pack the thousands of them I have amassed for moving has lead me to finally getting a Kindle.
I know what you mean having suffered the same issue multiple times.
But if I'm going to spend quality time with a book, I still think it worthwhile to purchase the physical version.
The digital version is good for archival and portability, but the first time through a good book feels like it should be with its most authentic representation.