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If you're talking about "insert char X at location Y" leading to undesirable changes: sure. But that has nothing to do with the DB type, and everything to do with how changes are resolved. CRDT / etc can all be written on top of any DB.

Updating a DB every 30ms should be trivial. Heck, you should be able to grab an exclusive row lock, double check your state, and write your change without even coming close - 100% conflict or deadlock free, regardless of the number of writers, simply by using a DB as it is designed to be used. In this case, by using the biggest reasonable hammer available: make everything sequential at the DB level. You can absolutely build other systems on a relational DB that don't have that limitation.