[klmr]

> then suddenly you were defending incest and I was like “how the hell did I end up here?”

… Which nicely illustrates what different people find acceptable. But I agree that sex work would have been a better example. Either way, you felt it necessary to add the qualifier “in general”, and many (…) people, though certainly a relative minority, would fundamentally disagree with this qualifier (while talking about consenting adult without power imbalance in their relationship).