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by MlEngineer
3010 days ago
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Maybe I was wrong? Maybe there is a way to date in the Bay that will yield better results? I'll be giving up an extremely attractive opportunity should I choose to stay on the east coast, I want to ensure I didn't miss any plausible way of making this work. |
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I had the opposite experience of yours. Moving from one place to another resulted in me going from Ms. Popularity to extreme loneliness. But I was very clear that there were multiple factors impacting my social life, including the fact that I got a full time job and no longer had as much free time for my social life.
I will suggest that you sit down and try to do a more thorough analysis and list as many differences as possible between your life in the SFBA and your life on the East Coast and try to figure out how each of those factors may have impacted your dating life. See if you can draw any inferences that may be useful in trying to successfully date while living in the SFBA. The obvious explanation isn't always the correct explanation and there are usually multiple factors in any given outcome. It usually isn't due entirely to a single factor.
If you don't want to consider the possibility that there are more factors than just the male to female ratio in these two locations, you don't have to. But please kindly refrain from shooting me down this time should you not like this suggestion either. You seem incredibly committed to your conclusion that it cannot be fixed. If you really believe that and are unwilling to consider any of the excellent suggestions here for another way to look at the problem space, then you are just wasting everyone's time.