[vfulco]

Bro, this will take a long time. Be gentle with yourself. It is the club no one wants to be a member of. I wish you peace and comfort. ~ A 4 year widower of a 37 year old bright light in the world extinguished decades too soon

[srean]

It does indeed take a long time. One thing I would add though is not to rush, let it take as much time it takes. Its not that things become fine after that time has been spent. One merely becomes more functional. One doesn't have to fight the "why did I even wake up today ?" everyday.