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by eropple 3039 days ago
> From my point of view, I would avoid approaching a group of women talking by themselves since I'd be the odd one out.

Women in male-dominated workplaces already feel like this every day.

I would submit that, while it is important to be cognizant that there are cases in which you may be intruding[0], the overwhelming majority of situations that's really not likely to be the case. It's work. You're working. Joining co-workers to talk about work is fine and overthinking it will bite you.

[0] - and yes, this may be identity-based and that may in a vacuum feel unfair, but we've held most of the cards for the run of human history and we can deal with it.

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> Women in male-dominated workplaces already feel like this every day.

Note that "work" and "conference" are two very different environments. I have no problem joining co-workers in a conversation.