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by TheSpiceIsLife 3054 days ago
> In life, you trust your family and your friends

Should we believe that family and friends are beyond the reach of the cardinal sins? I'm going to proclaim loudly: No! Family and friends are ideally placed to defraud us and sleep with our partner.

This isn't and indictment against trust, because, in practice, we trust family and friends anyway, and are rightly surprised and disappointed when they let us down.

We shouldn't be surprised or disappointed when HR, Legal, Management, etc, turn against us.
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candiodari 3054 days ago
All trust is relative.

Is HR more trustworthy than, say, the Chinese government ? Yes

(in most cases) is HR more trustworthy than far-off management of the company ? Usually, yes.

Are your friends and colleagues more trustworthy than HR ? Definitely

Is your family more trustworthy than your friends ? Usually

Of course your situation may differ, and some common sense needs to be applied, but HR is VERY low on the trust ladder.

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