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by jjeaff
3055 days ago
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In that case, I wholeheartedly disagree that mentoring people, especially very talented ones, be they women or men has little or no value for one's career and/or life. Staying in your own little homogeneous bubble and avoid contact with anyone not like you or doing anything outside what objectively gives you direct, measurable value seems like a surefire way to stagnate your career. And the chance of a false accusation has always been around. So to act so indignant now seems more to throw water on the movement than to truly be worried about your personal career progress. |
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What I am not willing to do is stick my and my families' neck on the line and take unnecessary career risks. I don't run in fear of women, I just take necessary precautions when dealing with a hazard.
I didn't create this environment where males, especially white middle-class males, are morally wrong for simply existing. And where any comment you say could be posted on twitter and you have a mob of people who say such nice things as "kill white people" are ready to harass you until you lose your job and everything you worked for. I am just reacting to it in a way that prevents me from falling victim to what I see as a threat to my career and protects my livelyhood and family.
Twenty years ago, I never felt like being alone with a woman in the office was a danger. Now, I feel like if I am not taking active measures, I could be crucified by HR, females, and the twitter / internet mob in the blink of an eye for simply making a comment that was taken the wrong way.