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by plurinshael
3075 days ago
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While I like Petersen's message and analytical competence quite a bit, in this interview he makes the mistake that a lot of highly intelligent people make: he states the truth at his level of intelligence and training and expects the other person to understand perfectly. "If you've correctly listened to my exact construction of words, you should understand." He could do better at connecting with her, on a relational level and not only an intellectual one. (Which, yes, is much more of an abstract concept and is typically a lot harder for intellectual people, and is definitely a lot harder when someone seems hostile.) He still does a good job of articulating the nuances of his position, but needs perhaps a little more connective tissue to let her know "I'm not against women! Hear me out." And I don't mean to let her off the hook, because she inappropriately framed his arguments a number of times. It's incredibly difficult to think on your feet in front of an audience/camera, let alone actually learn and genuinely absorb an entirely new level of complexity for something you already think you know. I appreciate what Petersen's saying about how the gender gap as described is a myth, and he articulates his reason for saying so: it's actually an 18-factor gap. But after he explains this and she continues to use the phrase gender gap multiple times to challenge his view, that's where he needed to identify that she has not correctly processed his real view, and stop her: "But ok it shouldn't be called a gender gap: based on the data, it's an 18-factor gap. Do you see what I'm saying?" Connective tissue; reading your audience. |
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