[quickthrower2]

I've been playing with a small amount of IOTA (<$0.01) and found yes txns get stuck waiting for confirmations for days and it is very hard to force them through.

Due to the one-use addresses your entire funds are stuck, because you can't resend from that address, so you can only wait, reattach and 'promote'. Promote means create a 0-value txn confirming your txn that ends up being more likely to confirmed itself. Nice in theory.