[thinkingemote]

> I don't understand why this is so hard for people to grasp.

If I was you, I'd make it my priority to find out why ohers think different to myself. I really think it would be the best thing to do for anyone, for any subject or persons.

The not even amateur psychologist in me suspects that deep down we do know why but that it scares us. At any rate, a good inquiry into oneself would prove enlightening.