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by JumpCrisscross 3093 days ago
> so I can know which people might become real friends and weed out those who wouldn't accept me for who I am

There is a healthy balance between full conformity and full renegade. Rejection is a social signal. You shouldn’t automatically accept it. But it shouldn’t be automatically thrown out, either. “Who you are” is fluid.

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>“Who you are” is fluid. //

This hasn't been my experience, the opposite in fact. How we act is entirely changeable, however.