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by sendos 3102 days ago
A very poignant if cynical poem by the Greek poet Kavafis on this topic:

You said: “I’ll go to another country, go to another shore, find another city better than this one.

Whatever I try to do is fated to turn out wrong and my heart lies buried as though it were something dead. How long can I let my mind moulder in this place? Wherever I turn, wherever I happen to look, I see the black ruins of my life, here, where I’ve spent so many years, wasted them, destroyed them totally.”

You won’t find a new country, won’t find another shore. This city will always pursue you. You will walk the same streets, grow old in the same neighborhoods, will turn gray in these same houses.

You will always end up in this city. Don’t hope for things elsewhere: there is no ship for you, there is no road.

As you’ve wasted your life here, in this small corner, you’ve destroyed it everywhere else in the world.

2 comments

I can tell from personal experience that if you change your environment and have new experiences, you will also change. Changing a big part of your life (job, location, relationships) makes it easier and sometimes necessary to also change your behaviour. Changing your behaviour in a big way also means to change your personality. However, if you're the kind of person who moves a lot, you're not really changing anything when you move. It's about doing scary things you've never done before.
:( Is there no hope for anyone?