[aaron-lebo]

Or maybe she had a legitimate reason to be offended. You don't get to chose that.

[drharby]

I think you missed my point where i would be offended and still handle it with grace.

Oh and to shortcircuit the strawman observation, I've been in many professional situations where my latino heritage is used in a malicious and insulting way which offends me but I CHOOSE a constructive non confrontational conflict resolution that includes dialogue