[guildan]

Don't hesitate to ask for help from people you know both of you will appreciate getting help from.

Don't take too much time for tidying up the house yourself, you need energy for the baby and take time to get to know him/her.

The first week was a complete change in our life, we were exhausted and so much had changed. But you get through it with help from others if you need it ( I know we did need a lot of it ).

The more important I think is take the time to get to know your baby, take the time to appreciate and share those moments with your SO, and do things the way you want (as long as it's secure).

Good luck :)