[moozilla]

Adding to what wk_end has said - many emulators (VBA included) will just write to the VRAM without complaining, so you won't even catch the bug unless you try it on a flash cart or in BGB (I'll second that recommendation).

For your demo checking $FF41 should be sufficient, unless you're writing a lot of data you'll usually have enough time in one vblank period. You could wait for $FF41 == 01 and then copy all the data, or check it each iteration of the loop (less efficient but will never fail). I've seen actual games do it both ways (decent amount of disassembly/ROM hacking experience).