[alikoneko]

> But having briefly used Bumble, where the women must message the guy first, I never received a message better than 'hey, hows it going?'.

To be fair, Bumble doesn't include a lot of space for you to talk about your interests. If I can't get an idea for who you are based on a picture (yes, most guys only have one), what more can I say other than introduce myself? My go-to icebreaker is "Hi! I'm Ali. I'm bad at this."

Edit: I should also note that Bumble isn't a great dating app if you also interested in same-sex relationships. Not relevant to the parent comment, but relevant to me.

[rarec]

That's rather the same issue you have on online dating sites.

Can't tell you how many girls love adventures and netflix; what exactly are you supposed to work with here?

[hiram112]

Don't forget travel and trying new restaurants!