[jklein11]

I'm not in your shoes, so take what I say with a grain of salt.

The biggest red flag to me is this quote:

>My fear is that I may need to choose between a great offer or the girl I am likely going to propose to.

This seems like an unfair ultimatum for her to give you. Maybe the reason why she is putting on the breaks isn't about the relocation. Its possible she doesn't share the same vision of the future as you.

At the end of the day there are plenty of fish in the sea, both in terms of jobs and significant others so do what feels right and don't look back.