[35bge57dtjku]

> Treating people different based on their gender(or race) is kind of the definition of descrimination.

Not really, it's also supposed to be unjust or harmful.

[ringaroundthetx]

Gender based etiquette is based on an idea of a weak and feeble minded gender.

Can you see how that alone is harmful in some contexts?

[belorn]

It is based on two ideas: that one is weak and infirm and the other is strong and healthy.

Attributing strength and health to gender identity carries with is all kind of problems for everyone involved.