[emodendroket]

As far as I understand it, they are not going to go digging if nobody is making a fuss.

[fweespeech]

Which means the one under the UCMJ is open to blackmail from their spouse if they fool around in a marriage in name only.

Yeah. Totally a reason to stay married in name only.

[emodendroket]

I guess, but the parent posts are describing a mutually beneficial arrangement.

[fweespeech]

I might be biased by the experience my friend from high school had up until he completed his service and got himself honorably discharged to make it stop.

It started out voluntary enough but the lack of a sex life led to that sort of problem.

[emodendroket]

Well, a vindictive spouse hardly needs the military to make your life difficult.