[gmossessian]

The OP is clearly asking about how to respond to the male instigator of the situation. Your misreading of the question, as well as your assertion that the woman involved in the story is "sensitive" and that, to understand how she feels, you would need to "stop making fun from life" and "try to think [the way] the most people think" shows a complete a total ignorance and lack of empathy on your part. The OP made no mention of the woman's reaction, everything you are saying is based on your own flawed assumptions. Please rethink the situation.