| What's the actual number? Because if 99 people out of a 100 all didn't think to text Kyle, then I don't think there's even a handful of people that actually really ever wanted him to be there. It takes a very particular size of group for that to happen. If you hang out with 4-5 people you would know if you "forgot" to invite someone. If it's much more than that, that is really a lot of people who it didn't occur to whether they wanted to see Kyle there or not. But you should really ask Kyle, about feeling left out and the quality of his friendships. > 99% of our friends use the very useful party organizing app with integrated chat and picture sharing, Facebook Except that is not why you are on FB while trying to defend your behaviour towards Kyle, that's only the story an alcoholic tells to himself when he's meeting his friends at the corner pub. If FB usage was just a "party organizing app with integrated chat and picture sharing", we would not be having this discussion. Let alone a "very useful" one, which would obviously allow to invite people transparently and easily via multiple channels of communication. FB does the exact opposite of this[0]. Now listen to yourself defending this!! Is that really your true opinion of this "organising app" speaking, or is it your dopamine-addiction, group identity and fear of ostracism? [0] Try using FB links sent through other comm for a bit with a logged out, cookies cleared browser. Like, a day or two. |