[Lordarminius]

She made her choice just as you have to make yours. I feel your pain but these things have away of working out one way or the other.

I have a different take on late marriage: maybe its not the career that's holding you back, maybe its the quest for compatibility, the need to have a spouse that understands and supports your goals. This carries more weight than we normally give credit for. This may be why driven men who marry early frequently get divorced.

Just a theory