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You could go looking for some general demographic information, but this is really very much a personal matter. Some people work their butts off to provide for the family. Some people are too busy working their butts off to bother with a family.

You likely won't get very meaningful responses here because you are asking a question that is far more personal than you realize. And even if you did get deep, meaningful replies from the heart, most of them would not be pertinent because the heart's of other people are not your heart and may not be anything like your heart.