Feel free to not care for my comment. It comes from 15 years of work experience. I find that it holds true. Your mileage may vary. A job is a transaction; no more, no less. Treat it as such.
Or self-fulfilling prophecy ? Sarcasm apart, mileage really does vary a lot and it depends on personality, colleagues, the industry, the company or the clients and other factors I can't think of. But these have to be considered nonetheless to sail the seas of work.
I like your phrasing: "it's not going to love you back".
I like your phrasing: "it's not going to love you back".