[mongmong]

Found this very interesting and brutally honest in the details around the circumstances of the consensual night out (she mentioned several times that the meeting being purely business was all made up in her head) and her equally honest opinion on what happened to Cheryl Yeoh (she doesn't agree that was assault).

Pity how a personal account with no clear villain or wrong doing is not getting much attention as it deserves, she is being very honest here and leaving herself vulnerable to being called both a SJW and a traitor to other women. I appreciate her honesty and complicated analysis of her own motivations and subsequent reactions.

[girvo]

Being moderate on these topics seems to invite scorn from all "sides". Can't win, really.

[RonanTheGrey]

Nope. And there's a large and growing group who self-silence (or even.. censor) because being moderate attracts as much vitriol as taking a side - because BOTH sides attack.

I don't get why saying "Many issues are complex" is some kind of war crime.