I live by this rule. But I also don't really have many opportunities to meet women outside of work either.
At this point I just accepted that I'm gonna be lonely for the time being and am biding my time to save up money and leave the Bay. A human connection and romance just isn't worth the social cost these days.
"Don't shit where you eat" is a good rule of thumb once you realize that its not a game you can win.
I wonder about people like you. Do you live in the real world, and interact with real people? Do you have real friends? Because it doesn't sound like it.
Not dating your coworkers is a sensible rule that some people follow and some companies may have policies around ... but a rule you have no hope in expecting to be universally adhered to. Case in point: The sheer number of (happy and unhappy) couples who met at work.
I've worked with plenty of workplace couples, I'm not casting aspersions on them. It can and does work out great for many. I just personally believe in separating work and life. Sorry for the un-nuanced answer.
Not my intention, sorry you took it that way. What I'm trying to convey is: if the original person asking the question was looking for advice, you probably don't want to cross that line. Work is work. Other stuff is completely separate.
I could totally be wrong and love of his/her/their life is out there in cube H206. I'm just some person online.
At this point I just accepted that I'm gonna be lonely for the time being and am biding my time to save up money and leave the Bay. A human connection and romance just isn't worth the social cost these days.
"Don't shit where you eat" is a good rule of thumb once you realize that its not a game you can win.