[nikmobi]

does "out of wedlock" really matter? I think the benefit of marriage in that context, is that there are 2 income generators, instead of a single parent. Isn't that accomplishable without marriage?

That said, I don't think you're wrong.

Genuinely looking for thoughts on this.

[michaelbuckbee]

Deliberately vs Accidentally is how I'd phrase it.

[kiba]

Maybe it's planned parenthood rather than having children that are not planned.