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by Kenji 3282 days ago
Modern dating is a mystery to me. What a laborious and painful way to sift through people when the most likable people come into your life when you least expect it.
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> when the most likable people come into your life when you least expect it.

There is often truth to that, but you have to put yourself into scenarios where that is more likely to happen. Be social, meet as many people as possible, etc.

It's doubly difficult for loners and introverts who do not necessarily enjoy meeting as many people as possible, yet would like a partner to share their lives with.