[notadoc]

Not a bad strategy even if it didn't work, dating is often purely a numbers game.

Meet as many people as possible, be as social as possible, create as many opportunities to meet new people as possible.

Also if you're a single male and you want to meet a female partner, I'd recommend moving away from the west coast. The south and midwest have far more women, and a generally friendlier culture which can make the entire meeting/dating process a bit easier.

[gorkonsine]

The women in the South are generally far more religious and conservative. West-coast men might not be too interested in that stuff.

The "friendlier culture" of the South thing is a myth. They're not that friendly to people who don't fit their preferred mold.

Source: grew up in the South. There's a reason so many young people move out of the South as soon as they can.

[pm90]

> The "friendlier culture" of the South thing is a myth. They're not that friendly to people who don't fit their preferred mold.

Heh... Ain't that the truth.

Completely anecdotally, I got a LOT more Tinder matches when I was in the West/East Coast than in my home state of Texas (I'm a Nonwhite Male).

[logfromblammo]

Having lived in the South long enough to mildly dislike it, I wouldn't say that Southerners are friendly. They are polite, and only when someone whose opinion they may care about is around. Midwesterners are more apt to be friendly, but with far less concern for politeness.

Southern conversation:

  A:  You know, B, we have been friends for a long time.
  A:  I think you ought to know: I'm homosexual.
  B:  Oh, bless your heart.  Thank you for telling me.
  B:  I'm gonna pray for you, A.
  B:  [never speaks to A again]

Midwest conversation:

  A:  You know, B, we have been friends for a long time.
  A:  I think you ought to know: I'm homosexual.
  B:  No duh.  When was the last time you looked at yourself?
  B:  Why do you think the rest of us call you "Mothball"?
  B:  Stays in the closet, and also stinks.
  B:  Guess we'll have to come up with something else now.
  A:  You're a great friend, Farticus.