[projectramo]

151st date is the charm.

This is a bit like living in NYC for both parties: there is so much volume that you can't get past the first minor disappointment.

I think the volume prevents you from focusing on one person to figure out what you want.

You might want to focus some kind of algo on the second part of the dating: selection.

Don't just go on your gut or how you felt after the date. You need multiple dates to figure that out.

[ice109]

NYC dating: water water everywhere but none that I'll drink more than a sip of in anticipation of finding a better glass. paradox of choice indeed.