[taneq]

It took me nearly 10 years to understand the line "I believe that trust is more important than monogamy" in that old Savage Garden song. It took an ex who was (I think) physically faithful (at that point) while completely dismantling my faith in humanity to figure that one out.

[throwanem]

I can second this. Infidelity was pretty much the last thing that happened, and by then I was already done.

[Mz]

Infidelity grows out of a shitty relationship, not the other way around.

[throwanem]

Exactly.