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I don't think that's what the author is suggesting tho. You said it yourself "I date women who are as successful as I am, so I'm never supporting them."

That implies that your out actually DOING something. That you choose not to adhere to social norms is no problem at all (I'm the same way). You've still embraced the trappings of maturity. Your pulling your own weight. That's great! I salute you sir.

It's when you decide that even pulling your own weight is a bit to much to handle that things get dicey.