heh good one, where and how do I get it? On a serious side though I agree about finding a physical activity which make one feel positively and constructively tired and relaxed.
If you can't get it easily for free, or it would take too much time, pay for it. This goes for everything.
I could easily have my girlfriend massage me, but I choose to get a professional. If my girlfriend is too busy for sex, I'm not going to bother her and/or beg.
I could easily have my girlfriend massage me, but I choose to get a professional. If my girlfriend is too busy for sex, I'm not going to bother her and/or beg.