| Added an up-vote for previous comments about quality and fit. Both points are absolutely critical. To expand on those points: 1. Dress for who you want to be (and what you stand for) - I've found it helps to approach fashion the way you do your career. It's all about investing in where you're headed next. Your clothes are the first layer of who you are and if you think about it, it's awesome that you get to invent that every day. Pick a few things that feel like they reflect your identity (both current and aspiring) and go all out. Even if you don't dress like anyone else, you'll dress like you and more likely than not, that level of comfort will evoke a sexy kind of confidence. 2. Gather top-notch basics first - Grab yourself a nice pair of jeans and a white t-shirt that fits just right. Do a good job on this and already, you'll look better than most people. 3. Those basics will take you a long way - Stepping up your style game isn't about volume, it's about quality. Unless you're going for a dandy look or something to that effect, your approach to fashion should be aligned with the owner of a minimalist Tiny House. Everything you buy, from basics to accessories, should be beautiful, functional, comfortable and long-lasting (e.g. quality). 4. A versatile blazer or good looking jacket will take you everywhere - Find one or two that look sharp and feel comfortable. You want something that's as easy to turn to as your favorite hoodie. Speaking of hoodies, grab a nice sweater or two. 5. Eliminate barriers - Everything you buy should be as easy as possible. For example, buy non-iron dress shirts. That way you don't have the "I don't have time to iron" excuse for not dressing up. 6. Shoes maketh the man - Someone once told me every good man needs two things. An excellent bed and an excellent pair of shoes. If you're not in one you're in the other. Get some good comfortable oxfords and a pair of nice leather low-top sneakers (think Common Projects) for the weekends. Keep them clean, unless you're specifically going for a worn look. 7. Nice workout clothes make a difference - Odds are, you'll go somewhere before or after the gym. Invest in nice workout clothes. I spent years wearing my college athletic gear to the gym and thought it made me an "authentic athlete." Really it just made me messy, and the second I started investing in good-looking athletic clothes I realized it makes a difference. My new gear made me realize I should invest thoughtfully and opt for quality in everything I do. If you're interested in learning more and want to talk menswear, message me. I'm obsessed with men's fashion and have done some makeovers for friends. Not selling anything here, just happy to help a fellow person who wants to be better. |