[val314159]

You want to find a girl who is:

1. ready for marriage 2. has had NO previous boyfriends 3. doesn't drink more than twice a month 4. said girl should not value money at all 5. this girl should be ok a guy who has poor social skills 6. should not have an arbitrary set of rules that excludes nearly 100% of the dating pool

If you find this girl, I guarantee you she is messed up in the head.

Bonus question: How come you said a women "on my side" rather than "by my side"? (is she a gun or a partner?)

[Veratyr]

> How come you said a women "on my side" rather than "by my side"? (is she a gun or a partner?)

I think this is just an honest mistake as a result of bad English rather than a reflection of his attitude towards women.

[val314159]

I could totally see that. However, too many "misspeaks" like this could come across as telegraphing your true feelings.

Sometimes how people say things is even more important than WHAT they say. (other case in point: "Decent" is a highly charged, loaded VALUE JUDGEMENT. I wonder if the Op is "decent"?)